5 Signs It’s Time to Quit Your Job

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I like to think that I am a hard working individual. It doesn’t matter if I am washing dishes or if I am retouching photos because if it’s something I can enjoy (or tolerate) then I give it my all. What I do notice is that I tend to get tired of a job when I feel like no further progress can be made or if the overall work morale is low. My behavior and performance is affected by my disinterest and I start to think about looking for another job. (It didn’t help that most of this occurred when I was a teenager.)

This has happened to me a few times already and if you start to notice these behaviors maybe it’s time to start a new job or spice up your current one before it is too late. I left some and others I was able to salvage by either fixing my work relationships or find ways to motivate myself again.

I’m not saying these are the only five indicators that let you know it’s time to move on to better career opportunities but these were the more common ones that came to mind. The decision to quit is ultimately a decision to be made by oneself.

1. Your work performance is suffering.

When you’re getting tired of your job, you’ll find ways to not work as hard. In other words, you’re slacking off. You might look for ways to cut corners, show up late to work, or even not work while at work (Hey, I showed up, right?). There are countless factors that could drive people to do this but whatever the underlying issue is, it needs to be addressed.

2. You have poor relationships with your coworkers (managers included).

Human beings are naturally social creatures. Since the beginning of time, people banded together and hunted or gathered after realizing what they were good at doing, and they probably had a better chance at survival when they functioned as one unit.

If you’re in a work environment that is either hostile, demotivating, or repressing, you end up feeling alone and unsupported.

It is important to build great work relationships because it is emotionally straining when your coworkers either don’t care or if they don’t like you.

3. You frequently call out of work (or are thinking about it).

When you are tired of your job/workplace, you don’t want to be there anymore. You’ll naturally find reasons to not be there and if action is taken, you call out or in more extreme cases, you simply do not show up (a huge sign that something is very wrong because missing work without letting anyone know could land you in a lot of trouble).

4. You constantly compare the progress of your career with someone else’s.

In my opinion, it’s generally not healthy to constantly pit ourselves up against other people. Doing so causes people to generally feel negative emotions such as anxiety, envy, depression, etc. Sometimes, it can be motivating when you aspire to do well and have some friendly competition. When done excessively, you can easily make yourself miserable especially if you fall short accomplishing what others have accomplished.

5. You feel like you’re heading towards a dead end.

A dead end job is one that may exhibit some or all of the following characteristics: offers no further opportunities to advance in the company, doesn’t teach you anything about yourself, forces you to live paycheck to paycheck, doesn’t offer enough networking opportunities, and makes you feel like you’re wasting your life/time.

There is no point in staying in a job that physically and emotionally leads you nowhere because you’re only going to be worn down until you reach your breaking point. Sometimes we’re in situations where we don’t have the liberty to just leave a job but we don’t have to be unhappy either. I hope this article helps you decide whether it is time to move on or not.

A Wake Up Call

I pretty much sleep in all the time. It all started a few years ago when I had to go to school and work almost full time. I became a night owl and that’s how it’s been ever since. I also stay up a little longer now because I feel like it’s the only time during the day that I have time to myself. During the day, it’s all about Jackson until Peter comes home to take care of him. When they’re both asleep, I stay up to do homework and watch a few episodes of my currently following TV show, Pretty Little Liars. Everyone has been telling me to try and sleep earlier but it’s been hard trying to sleep. I drink a glass of icy cold milk at night before bed and read a few chapters before nodding off. By the way, I can’t stand warmed milk. I just hate the way it makes your breath smell but for some reason, cold milk does not.

I woke up around eight today and quietly rolled out of bed to warm up a bottle of milk for Jackson. When he wakes up, he gets pretty fussy after having slept for seven to eight hours straight. Returning to bed with the bottle, I leave it on the nightstand and fall back asleep. About thirty minutes later, Jackson whines and I hand him a bottle and once again, fall back asleep. I know when he finishes it, he does too since it’s still so early. We nap for a few more hours until I wake up at 11 AM and I fetch another bottle for him when he wakes up after twelve. Usually, this is the time I wake up and check my emails, Facebook, Twitter, etc. for the first time of the day.

But, this is the day I get a call from the district manager of Yogli Mogli.

I can’t say I was expecting this at all, but maybe my take no shit, give no shit attitude paid off. Usually people really don’t call back and I just wander around waiting like an idiot. She offered me to start off part-time there and see how I did in the next two weeks. I had applied for shift leader and she was worried about giving me the position and having to take it away if things didn’t work out so therefore, we decided on the trial first. Other than VOX, I haven’t had much of managerial experience but like I told her yesterday during my interview, that if there is room for growth then I don’t mind working my way up. I’ve never been handed a free lunch in my life and I don’t expect to get one anytime soon. I’ll mostly be closing if I take the job, but that’s alright. I’m far superior at opening though but I have more experience with closing.

I think commute is longer than I’d like it to be but I’ve seen other people do worse so who am I to complain? It would be minimum wage but it isn’t exactly retail either. If I do go back into retail, at least I know I’ll start where I left off which is a pretty nice chunk of change.

I haven’t really accepted yet, but she’s going to give me a call either later tonight or tomorrow to figure everything out, training schedules and whatnot.

There is no problem trying it out. The pay is standard and our finances seem in good health, but hey, I don’t mind pocket change for me and my family. Whatever I can do to make my family happy is fine with me.